Bill's Friends and Family

Monday, April 14, 2008

April 14th- Home Sweet Home

Bill did really well on his trip home from the hospital on Friday. He was seeing the outside of the hospital for the first time when we left. Remember in February, we went to the clinic for a doctor’s visit, and they whisked us off to the hospital through breezeways and hallways, never going outside. A breath of fresh air, and a car ride home, was just what the doctor ordered.
We now have a hospital bed in the living room, that Bill has not laid down on. He is perfectly happy on the couch, with the remote, and sleeping in his own bed. Life is good.
Each day I have noticed a little more energy and his appetite improving. Plus he has very little pain. It is just nice to be home.
The Sunday school class, Grace Praise Team (choir), neighbors and Bill’s boss, Dennis, have been wonderful. Our meals have been delicious, some have picked up prescriptions at the pharmacy, others have shuttled the family to and from the airport at terrible hours of the day. We are blessed to know so many people who want to help. And their help is greatly appreciated.
Our adult children are all coming in one at a time. Kari, Jeff and Andrew (he is soooo cute and so good) were here over the weekend. Andrew brought a smile to Bill’s face. Kari watched me flush Bill’s IV line, and administer medications. The home health care nurse had given me instructions, but it was still nice to have her here for the first time on my own. Kari and family left early Monday, and Jon arrives about noon. I will try to get him to write the blog before he leaves for his take on this adventure.
A blood draw was done this morning. As soon as the labs send the results to the doctors we will know what blood products Bill needs and those will be administered at home. Amen.
Hospice is not part of the process at this time. As long as Bill is accepting blood products (platelets and red cells) and medications to prolong life, then the home health nurse meets these needs. Hospice will be available when Bill refuses life saving measures. The decision is totally in Bill’s control.
Visitors are welcome if you are healthy. Bill cannot fight off any infection. Short visits are best because he tires quickly, but he enjoys seeing everyone so much. Just call first.
Thank you for your wonderful messages. You have been so supportive through this whole illness, which is not over yet. The Lord is meeting our needs, one day at a time.

13 comments:

Lynn said...

I'm sure that just being home makes Bill feel better. What a blessing your "Chicago Family" has been to both of you. Seeing the children and grandbabies will be good medicine for Bill and you, too. We pray for comfort and peace. Love, Lynn and Lake

Anonymous said...

I am glad to hear Uncle Bill is feeling a little better. I'm sure he enjoyed the Master's from the comfort of his own couch all weekend.
It's always good to know that family and friends are there for support. And most of the time, they are the best medicine.
I am praying for you all every day.

Love,
Melissa

Anonymous said...

There truly is no place like home and I'm so glad you are there and Bill is enjoying life again. I pray he stays comfortable and receives much love from all the visiting.

Dori in AZ

Mickey Hornack said...

Hubers--keep on keepin on. home is where the heart is. Thinkin of you all lots

Anonymous said...

Thanks so much for sharing your difficult struggle thru this blog and re-aquainting us with your wonderful family. It's really apparent that Bill feels the enormous strength and love of your family.

You are in our thoughts and prayers and may God's peace be with you all.

Richard and Kathy Westbrook

Anonymous said...

Like the song goes - "There's no place like home." It's sweet medicine for the heart and soul - we are praying with you that things continue to go well and that Bill is comfortable. Also, our prayers are with you, as you are the primary care giver - no one understands what this is like until they have walked in these same shoes.

Blessings on you both,

Terrye and Larry

Anonymous said...

"East, west, home is best"
Enjoying the comforts of home- a couch and a remote.

Take care all of you
Praying often
Love,
Paula

Anonymous said...

You are both our heros. We admire your faith and strength. We keep both of you and the kids in our prayers. We've said it before, but we'll keep saying it...
we love you. I wish I could bring you a casserole...

Ann and Jim Reego

Anonymous said...

Being home and having some normalcy in life can be "chicken soup for the soul"!! So glad the two of you are enjoying the chaos that comes with friendship and family. God does work in mysterious ways!

Keep that smile on Bill's face and the twinkle in his eye - inner peace is a good thing.

Love always and prayers often,
Gail, Marty, and Mom

Anonymous said...

If anyone deserves good days, it's Bill!!! Glad to hear that some of his appetite is coming back and that he's feeling more comfortable at home. I love the new pics of Andrew; he and Maggie are so adorable. I hope Bill was able to enjoy some of the beautiful sunshine today.

We are with you in spirit but will be keeping our distance since the flu has hit our house. :(

Take care, both of you.

Love,
Janet and John

Anonymous said...

"There us a light in the world, a healing spirit, more powerful than any darkness we may encounter. We sometimes lose sight of this force, when there is so much suffering, too much pain. Then suddenly, the spirit will emerge through the lives of ordinary people who care and answer in extraordinary ways." Mother Teresa

Bill and Nancy, you are experiencing that spirit through all your friends that have reached out to you in extraordinary ways. God bless them and may God continue to bless you and give you strength for each day. We wish we lived closer to help you with daily tasks, but you remain close in our hearts and prayers.
Love, Sandy and Paul

Anonymous said...

You find true blessings when things have somehow turned against you. You and Nancy are truly blessed with a wonderful family, enduring friends and a persevering support group. Nancy is an angel who also needs reprieve, may she find it in your quiet times. Our hearts are with you and our prayers uphold you. Love Tom, Sherry and Miles.

Anonymous said...

Glad to hear you are enjoying life back at home, Bill. The family visits will be a great time of joy for both of you. You are in our prayers each day.

Dale & Laura